Memorial of Sts. Martha, Mary, and Lazarus

Mary and Martha of Bethany are celebrated on July 29 as two of Jesus' closest friends, often referred to as "sisters" who lived together. However, when viewed through a queer lens, an intriguing possibility emerges: perhaps Mary and Martha were a lesbian couple. This reimagining challenges traditional interpretations and offers a richer, more inclusive understanding of their relationship.

Mary and Martha's household was unconventional for their time, defying societal norms that pressured women into heterosexual marriages. This idea resonates with the story of the Philadelphia Eleven, including lesbian theologian Carter Heyward, who were ordained as Episcopal priests on July 29, 1974, against the male-dominated hierarchy.

Nancy Wilson, former moderator of Metropolitan Community Churches, suggests in her work "Our Story Too: Reading the Bible with ‘New’ Eyes" that Jesus' affinity for this "non-traditional family" could indicate deeper, unacknowledged dynamics. She proposes that Mary and Martha, along with their brother Lazarus, might have formed a queer triad, challenging the assumption of their celibacy and heterosexuality.

This perspective gains further support from historical instances where Biblical patriarchs disguised their marriages by calling their wives "sisters." Could Mary and Martha's relationship have been similarly coded?

The Gospel narratives also add layers to their story. While Martha is remembered for her bustling hospitality and profession of faith in Jesus as the Christ (John 11:27), Mary is honoured for her contemplative nature, choosing to listen at Jesus' feet (Luke 10:38-42). These interactions highlight the depth and complexity of their connection to Jesus.

Recent scholarship even suggests that references to Mary and Martha in the resurrection story might allude to Mary Magdalene, merging their identities and further enriching their narrative.

Mary and Martha's legacy extends beyond the Bible. Orthodox tradition celebrates them as "myrrh-bearing women" who witnessed Jesus' resurrection, while legends depict their continued ministry alongside Lazarus in Cyprus and France.

As we commemorate their feast day, it's vital to remain open to new interpretations that honor diverse experiences. Imagining Mary and Martha as a queer couple not only affirms LGBTQ identities but also challenges us to embrace a broader, more inclusive vision of the people of God.

Why It Matters

Revisiting commonly-held ideas about Biblical figures allows LGBTQ individuals to see themselves reflected in sacred stories. It challenges the erasure of queer history and invites all believers to explore the rich tapestry of human relationships and divine love.

By asking "What if?" we open doors to deeper understanding and empathy, fostering a more inclusive faith community that honours the dignity and diversity of every person.

Martha, Mary, and Lazarus are remembered for their unique roles in the Gospel narratives. As we reflect on their stories, let us embrace the diverse ways they inspire and challenge us in our faith journeys.

Image Credits: Lazarus between sisters Martha and Mary by the Master of Perea (Wikipedia)